“They say life’s what happens when you’re busy making other plans. But sometimes in New York, life is what happens when you’re waiting for a table.” ~Sarah Jessica Parker as Carrie Bradshaw from the HBO show Sex and the City
Category: Manhattan
I Marched.. Now Back to Monday
On Sunday I had my fun day on New York City’s 5th Avenue marching in the parade. This dress is from the Greek nomads known as the Sarakatsani. I like this costume because it’s very different than many others, and there are plenty of layers to ward off some of the cold.
Photo for Friday on Saturday, Again
Snowing on 72nd Street |
Yes, I know I missed Friday. So, okay, it’s Saturday and I’m posting Friday’s photo that I didn’t even take this Friday. I can’t even remember what day this was, but it was snowing and I had to be in Manhattan. Maybe it was last Friday. I didn’t have a chance to post it. By the time I was ready to do so it was too late because we got hit with another snowstorm and this was old news, sort of. At 10 A.M. in NYC, this was just the beginning of it.
A few years ago I made plans to visit my sister in the city to look at apartments with her. It was a wintry day, cold and cloudy with a flurry of snow in the forecast for the late afternoon. I hopped on the Long Island Railroad, having parked my car in the lot at the train station near my house. A 40 minute ride and I would be in Manhattan. No problem. We were going to look at a few places, have lunch and I’d go home. Done.
Only minutes into the ride the snow starts falling. It’s only 10 A.M. and I was thinking to myself “Wasn’t this supposed to be later in the day?” If you don’t know the L.I.R.R., a little snow could shut down the whole system. Ugh. Fifteen minutes in, the announcement I could barely make out said the train would be delayed. Oh great. I called my sister to tell her the news so she could re-arrange the appointment. The best, most relaxed trip into Manhattan from mid-Nassau County Long Island and a little snow wipes out the system. Just think about it. Do you have any idea how many people ride the railroad as their daily commute? Some days you love it, some days you hate it.
The trip was an hour late getting into Pennsylvania Station and so was our appointment. Everything worked out fine, except we trudged around in the snow that was accumulating inches by the minute. By lunch there was four inches on the ground and more falling. After we were done I hailed a cab back to the train station for my trip home. When I arrived I found my car under seven inches of snow! Of course I didn’t listen to my father who used to have us keep a shovel in the trunk. All I had was a magazine to push all that snow off my windshield. Not fun.
A photograph of my decimated magazine pushing snow off the car would have been fun for the blog, if I had one then. Next time.
Photo for Friday and Sept. 11
On Fridays I like to post a photo on the blog. Something you might like to see me working on or something to laugh about. I had planned to post a picture of the watercolor I did on that beach day this week. Then I thought to post the new painting I started yesterday when I realized that tomorrow is the ninth anniversary of the terrorist attacks on our city.
I hunted through my photographs, mind you that was not an easy task since most of my photos are NOT in books. I know, bad girl. Anyway, I took this photo of the twin towers of the World Trade Center during the summer of 1990. Our boys were young and my husband and I decided to visit lower Manhattan for the day. We took a Skyline Tour on a boat around the city. It was a beautiful sunny day and I remember lending other tourists my sunscreen.
How can we ignore what happened in our city? Now that I’m blogging I could not ignore the date. The pain is still there, just under the surface. A news article, a documentary on television, and I’m right there again. The sadness, the shock, the lost people, right back in the moment.
Nine years ago tomorrow. September 11, 2001 I was at home on Long Island getting ready for my day. I had an appointment, my father was in the hospital, the sons were at college and freshman year of high school, The Mr. at work, my mom also, and my sister was in Manhattan. Son#1 called to say something is happening, he heard it on the Howard Stern radio show and thought it was a joke. I turned on my TV and watched the towers being hit in a matter of minutes. I told Son #1 that this is a terrorist attack on New York City, maybe the whole country.
Frantically I phoned my sister and she answered her cell phone just as she was driving out of the city over the Triborough Bridge to Queens. Later that day all access to and from Manhattan would be shut down. Thankful she was safe I went about my day, to my appointment and the hospital. Cell phones were the only means of communication until later that day.
On the car radio I heard the reporters say one tower was collapsing. I switched the radio off. I switched it back on. And the second tower went down.
Three thousand regular people lost their lives for no good reason that day. 3000. Regular people going to work, or school. Regular every day people became murder victims and other regular every day people became heroes. People just working. 3000 regular people. Buildings, offices, homes, churches, schools, museums, restaurants, regular every day people living in that densely packed city.
The people who piloted those planes into office buildings believe that anyone not of their religion is an infidel and must be conquered. Say what you want, but that’s the truth of it. Greeks know it, the Armenians and Assyrians know it, and others do too. It’s not our wealth, prosperity, or life style. It’s because other religions are beneath theirs. Only theirs is the true faith. Others are the dirty infidel dogs. This is nothing new and has been going on for centuries. Their religion says they must conquer and bring down the infidel.
Fight or flight set in after the shock of such an event. In the moment of that quick, sharp inhale of breath the mind is set at a tilt, but thankful knowing my family was safe. How? Why? Who? In the nine years since the attacks sad things happened here, but happy things happened too. As time passed the distance grew between the events allowing life to continue to go on.
As I prepared my photo for Friday there was no way I could ignore the date.
Friday Photos
M.I.A in Manhattan
Yes, I know. I was M.I.A on Monday. Missing In Action. Actually I was in action, in movement, on the road. This time my sister’s back went out and as she was unable to drive her car to get back to her apartment in New York City, I drove her there on Monday. So, it sort of was and sort of wasn’t an adventure.
Every time I go to Manhattan I call it an adventure. It ‘s no big deal to go there, I just make it seem like that. I make believe I’m doing some big thing, but I’m really not. I’m used to the city. I worked there as a paste-up artist years ago downtown in the 20’s and 5th Avenue.
When we were kids my mother took us into the city plenty of times. She grew up in Manhattan on Columbus Avenue on the West Side. We lived just across the Queens Borough Bridge in Astoria and Manhattan was a bus ride over the bridge for us. Our mom didn’t want us to be country bumpkins and not know how to navigate the city. We had to dress well to visit, or to shop, or to go to the theater. No one was wearing dungarees to Manhattan in the 1960’s! Dungarees, aka jeans, were for weekend wear at home with comfy shoes and a sweater.
Now when we go to the city my mom always remarks on how everyone in the city is dressed like a slob! Here and there you see some high society people, but even they’re not dressed to the nines. What is everyone doing with their expensive designer clothes and shoes? Most times the fancy people are dressed in rags and some regular schmoes are wearing Chanel on the street! East side, west side, doesn’t matter. Even on 5th Avenue or Madison Avenue, no one is really dressed like my mom was used to doing. That time is over!
So anyway, I drove my sister to the West Side for her appointment, which took three hours. But he’s a great chiropractor, so we didn’t care how long it took. When we were done I dropped her off at her building and drove around for a half hour to find a place to park my Mountaineer. Yeah, don’t worry. Everyone in Manhattan is driving an S.U.V! Why? Who knows? More trucks than Audis, BMW’s or Mercedes on the East side. Park a truck in a garage and you have to pay extra! I had to find street parking.
I found a spot, noted where I parked and walked a couple of blocks back to the apartment building. The air was crisp, the sun high and warm, and I had an overall good feeling. A free kind of feeling. No agenda, nothing else to do, just a wonderful walk alone. Head and eyes up and alert, but comfortable.
That’s a good kind of adventure for me.